The Collar

BDSM has changed some much in the last 10 years, Dominants and Submissives  slaves are disposable, that is what it has come to.
Today when you by a collar it comes with Velcro, because most men think with there cocks. You meet a submissive on Friday and your ready to put a collar on the submissive, really , seriously , just for a piece of ass. A week later your tired of the sub, so you take your Dollar General collar back, and move on.
Now there is a consideration collar, then a training  collar, then at last THE COLLAR. Wow how much stress do you wish to put upon a submissive or a slave.
If you get married is there a consideration ring, then a training ring, then the ring. NOT.
A collar symbolizes the same as a wedding ring, in some cases more so.
Although a collar is earned, it is not meant to add stress to your potential submissive.
You never set your submissive up for failure, a lot of positive reinforcement is needed, and I cannot
stress enough about communication. I myself like to set an hour or so aside on a daily basis, just to talk.
Instead of rules I call them guidelines, protocol which I am real big on. If the submissive is real and truly wants a D’s relationship none of what I have covered would be a problem.
A collaring ceremony, could take place in 6 months to a year, it can be private or with a gathering just like a regular wedding.
If you run across a Dominant who wants to collar you the first day or week he has known you. RUN.
This is just my opinion, I am sure not everyone is going to agree and that is fine.
I myself take a collar very serious, in 20 years I have had five long term relationships and I collared three.

It does not mean the other two were not worthy,  just something neither of us were interested in..